The Tender Warrior

A Letter to Myself

The suitcase by the door.

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Vicki Tull
May 24, 2026
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I lost my husband to Alzheimer’s over seven years — four of them as his primary caregiver. Somewhere in those years, I stopped recognizing myself in the mirror. Today I write The Tender Warrior, published three times a week for anyone who has loved someone through loss and is ready to belong to themselves again. Because after caregiving, coming home to …

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