The Tender Warrior

Friendships Have Seasons—And So Do We

On Caregiving, Connections, and Finding Your Way to the People Who Matter

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Vicki Tull
Apr 29, 2026
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the four seasons

I’ve written a lot about the importance of community—and feeling a sense of belonging within it.

It sounds obvious. Practical. Almost like common sense.

And yet, during caregiving, it was anything but easy.

There were real barriers:

  • Time — Caregiving is constant. Even when I stepped away, my mind stayed with him.

  • Guilt — He was the one suffer…

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