I Told Him It Was Okay to Go

A Tender Warrior's honest account of memory care

Note: This essay deals directly with end-of-life care, hospice, and death.

One of the hardest decisions a caregiver makes — if not the single hardest — is if and when to move your loved one into memory care.

No one prepares you for it. Not really. There is conflicting input from family, from medical professionals, from your own conscience. There is the to…