The Tender Warrior

One of the most important lessons I’ve had to learn the hard way: When caring for someone else with a disease ——you can’t disappear

Caregiving is love—but it is also relentless responsibility.

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Vicki Tull
Mar 18, 2026
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The responsibility of comforting him was entirely up to me. To calm him. To carry the emotional weight.

Caregiving is love—but it is also relentless responsibility.

All I wanted some days was:

To sleep through the night.

To have a few quiet minutes to myself.

To rest from the constant vigilance.

To feel safe.

Here is the truth I had to learn the hard way:

You c…

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