My dear friend Vicki. You must (for me) you must stop writing. Please, I'm running out of boxes of tissues! At least I've found it very healthy for my sinuses to read your posts. As I thought about your request asking, "what are your non-negotiables?" I looked around my office first, then in my mind the rest of our home. EVERYTHING I see is a reminder in some way of the life Jan and I have shared. If I were to ever start over, NOTHING would change. I'd be sitting in a different shape of walls, looking at everything we now own. There is truly a story about each piece of everything. I'm glad I do not know how to move on because I do not want to. My life with Jan is all around me, and I'm hoping it doesn't have to change.
My dear friend Vicki. You must (for me) you must stop writing. Please, I'm running out of boxes of tissues! At least I've found it very healthy for my sinuses to read your posts. As I thought about your request asking, "what are your non-negotiables?" I looked around my office first, then in my mind the rest of our home. EVERYTHING I see is a reminder in some way of the life Jan and I have shared. If I were to ever start over, NOTHING would change. I'd be sitting in a different shape of walls, looking at everything we now own. There is truly a story about each piece of everything. I'm glad I do not know how to move on because I do not want to. My life with Jan is all around me, and I'm hoping it doesn't have to change.