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I Told Him It Was Okay to Go
A Tender Warrior's honest account of memory care
Jun 26
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Vicki Tull
5
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How Are You Doing?
A question I couldn't answer honestly until grief taught me how
Jun 24
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Vicki Tull
3
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Who Was I, Then?
A lesson in devotion, identity, and the self that caregiving asks you to set aside
Jun 22
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Vicki Tull
6
1
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An Ode to Dad
On steadiness, Saturday nights, and the phone that no longer rings
Jun 22
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Vicki Tull
5
2
And Then the Math Comes
What every spousal caregiver needs to know before the system puts a number on your home
Jun 19
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Vicki Tull
2
This Is The Place We Said Hello
On returning to where it all began — and finding what remains
Jun 17
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Vicki Tull
4
3
I Leave Tomorrow
A note to Tender Warriors before the celebration of Lee's life
Jun 10
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Vicki Tull
2
4
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How's That for Fine?
On Showtime, the performance of wellness, and what caregivers carry alone
Jun 8
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Vicki Tull
7
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You Can Love Someone Completely and Still Reach the Edge
Somewhere in the dark of a sleepless night, I realized something I never thought possible.
Jun 5
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Vicki Tull
3
One Diagnosis, A Thousand Languages
What spouses across every culture discover about devotion, identity, and resilience
Jun 3
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Vicki Tull
1
Live Outside Your Own Head
On agency, overthinking, and finally getting out of your own way
Jun 1
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Vicki Tull
2
May 2026
You Don't Find Community. You Build It — By Walking Out Your Front Door.
On the 6 Points of Connection and the slow work of belonging again
May 29
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Vicki Tull
3
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